I have been think of getting a vasectomy because I don't think she can handle another and I don't have the energy and to deal with all of it (job, 2, and depressed and angry wife). She's not sure if she wants another. We've had help from family so I'm very lucky to have them. Otherwise things would be worse. we did go on an all inclusive in Feb and we did have sex times that week but it was like pulling teeth. She really didn't want to do it but did because he knew how much I wanted to. It's not about the stress and responsibility of raising a that's affecting her. It's the depression or the anti-depressants.